Stone Cracking expenditure on Marriages

This post is regarding the stone cracking expenditure on marriages which mean the uncontrolled expenditure on marriages and this could be controlled only by the awareness of general public.
Now people are spending lot on the marriages and it is bad because its wastage of money
And if they don't spend even then it is bad because it is against their self esteem.
According to some people this is good because this creates employment but it is wastage of money to some extent as well.
Now a days everyone has one or two children so they want that the marriage should be done with full expenditure and moreover in India marriage is such a occasion which is done once in life not as in other countries which can be done when they want.
Christians are ready for divorce any time and Muslims are ready to do more marriages any time so in India people spend much on marriages
But this create problem for them who do not have money to spend because they are tend to spend a lot on marriages
The views of some people are as follows…

"Well yes... it depends actually... if the parents genuinely want their children to have a grand and big marriage, and if they can afford it, I think it's ok to have expensive arrangements... but then, if it is just for the sake of showing off... I think it's pretty bad... because then, others (who can't afford such expensive weddings), tend to feel bad and get the feel that they are of a low class... and then comes the inequality factor which, sadly, is prevailing in our society on a large scale!!"
"Well frankly, I feel that it is up to the people to realize that spending money so lavishly is of no use... they need to get rid of selfish motives, the "show off" attitude and all. And should realize that money is needed for the country... the poor need money, orphans, the ill people... but sadly, it will be quite"
"The bigger marriage and the higher wastage of money. But to raise self esteem people do this. But if someone has more money then he will spend more lavishly."
"We should spend more money if we have because it creates employment as well and it is the means of various professions and businesses… and then it circulates money and then enhance economy"

As per me we should spend because it transfers the money from rich to the needy and it creates balance between rich and poor but if you have money and you have better plans for the development of country then we should not spend much on marriages else its not bad to spend…